what would you choose (in Off-topic)
August 19 2008 4:27 AM EDT
single life "play as much vids as you want" or the passive/aggressive girlfriend?
August 19 2008 4:30 AM EDT
August 19 2008 4:34 AM EDT
Tough question. I gave it some thought and I think I'd go for the single life. Because in the end, that's what it'll come down to and I don't want the hassle in between. That girlfriend is going to annoy me like no other, and the relationship is doomed from the beginning. So instead of trying to make it work, I'd rather skip the hassle and stay single. At least for a while :P
This depends on three things: Who is the girlfriend, is she good in the sack, and what are the video games?
if I am offered a choice, I will take a girlfriend. However, real life has not offered me that choice yet.
Take option C:
Schedule the video games around the girlfriend. Unless you live together you probably don't hang out every day. That and too much time playing video games and you miss the outside. Video games aren't everything man, find a good balance. If the girl is passive aggressive force a confrontation, if she doesn't face what bugs her most likely you will both end up miserable.
Amazingly, not a single miss-spelled word in this post.
My ex was so needy. She would always get mad at me if I were playing any type of video game because it meant I was paying less attention to her.
And she ended up breaking up with me this summer via Facebook message because she realized sooner than I did that it was a loveless relationship.
Point is, if you have to bend over backwards for a woman, chances are it's not going to work out. Better off trying to find someone who can accept you.
August 19 2008 7:22 AM EDT
Flatcap has it right. The best relationship is one with a middle ground. I generally spent 4-5 nights a week with my ex and the other nights were mine to do what I please. Generally spent in front of the computer! If she is wants to spend every waking moment with you then you will both end disliking each other after a few months. Unless you are both that needy... in that case I suggest seeing a psychiatrist!
August 19 2008 9:53 AM EDT
Option D works... date a chick that plays video games :P If offered a choice, i would likely go with video games, due to me not responding well to ultimatums, and video games tend to not make those. But without the choice being offered, the girl always comes first. ^_^
August 19 2008 10:22 AM EDT
August 19 2008 10:55 AM EDT
I prefer the aggressive girlfriend, myself. ;)
Or, you could just wait until you find a girl that enjoys the same activities as you. And trust me, they do exist. I'm living proof. ^_^
I play Socom and Army of Two and racing games and all sorts of other games with my husband on a regular basis. And we play on our own, too.
Don't ever settle for something. Life can be way much too much fun to simply settle. :D
August 19 2008 12:38 PM EDT
single life "play as much video games as you want"
Probably because I never had option B in my life.
Me and Ravenshaw Clone are together in this one.
August 19 2008 1:17 PM EDT
Hmmm i see i see....its been 3 years of this so time to find a new one you guys are saying right? Where do i find a pretty gamer chick then?
Good luck with that, Frost. XD
August 19 2008 2:14 PM EDT
Ask professor Hojo to create one for you, Frost.
Intelligent, caring, good-looking, caring and a little bit sadistic.
Don't make her angry though, knowing professor Hojo, he'll make her change into something very very not good when that happens.
Oh yeah, I'm a complete idiot when it comes to women, I already let 3 of them slip by because I was too naive. Seeing as I had 3 chances already, I'm doomed to stay a loner, so might as well choose for it :D
Hang around WoW long enough, I know several that are addicted to that game, just don't let the game itself drive you mad :P
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