Help!!! (in General)

I've been noticing.. the higher up I am the more and more trouble I have with my strategy.

I am using a EW:ROBF. But it seems that DD and D M is just destroying me. Pumping the perfect amount of Evasion and DEX and HP for that fact is not doing enough. I have even pumped HP and some Steel Skin on my Enchanter? Maybe it is my equipment not being strong enough. I dunno. I will post my Char Stats, as well. When I figure to, without copying everything... Thanks for your time!!

~DivineChaos~

White Mage Serene

Experience: 83,087
Hit Points: 220,245
Armor: 81
Strength: 20
Dexterity: 20
Decay: 0.5 / 0
Antimagic Field: ? / ?
Steel Skin: 203,227 / 163,130
Net Worth: $6,234,056
Encumbered at: 18,217,286

Equipment:

An Amulet of AC [0] (+18)
A Breastplate of Expertise [18] (+21)
An Elven Cloak [4] (+6)
A Pair of Spellboosters [4] (+10)
A Set of Noldorin Spellcasters [0] (+11)
A Cornuthaum [0] (+8)

White Mage Mathew

Experience: 83,087
Hit Points: 620,449
Armor: 67
Strength: 20
Dexterity: 611,703 / 436,931
Evasion: 87 / 71
Net Worth: $9,966,702
Encumbered at: 23,511,628



Equipment:

An Amulet of Focus [0] (+9)
A Pair of Elven Boots [10] (+27)
A Pair of Elven Gloves [3] (+14)
A Cabasset [3] (+10)
A Mage Shield [0] (+29)
A Rune of Balrog Flame lvl 1,659,388

Just my score and that...

Score 2,735,828
Power 1,178,309
MPR 797,672
Net Worth $46,299,456


Help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time!

does it seem to be physical damage teams that give you trouble or magic damage?

Physical seems to be my problem, I'm still getting hit with my evasion. MM Also, does a number on me as well. Also, DM kills my SS and then I am really left in the water to drown..