Guys (in Off-topic)

why one minute guys say everything is fine and they are happy and then one minute later they bring up the past? is it just to start a fight...because its really getting on my nerves...
guys answer please...

That's not a "guy" thing, that's a "human" thing. That's something anyone is capable of doing.

Because we're idiot and sometimes do not know a good thing when we have it.

ughhhhhh...guys are annoying

I don't think its necessary to differentiate between men and women when it comes to relationship trouble. We're all human and we all make mistakes and we express unhappiness or discomfort basically in the same ways. Example: Read your first post, but replace the word "Guys" with "girls". It still sounds completely valid and a fairly common complaint if I do say so myself ;)

i get what you are saying...but i'm trying to make myself feel better...lol...i didn't do anything...so i shouldn't be yelled at

I do sympathize with you, it's not fun to be in a position like that. Whatever happened, odds are it's noone's fault and you probably are getting shafted. Good luck I guess is all I can say, keep on truckin'

When someone says everything is "fine" it rarely is. That goes for guys or gals. Sometime when I say things are fine, I'm internalizing my problems with the situation so that I can maybe get over my qualms by myself. Yet this can really bite you in the butt if what you said was fine still bothers you.

Make him feel like there's an open line of communication. Don't yell. And don't start sentences with "You always....." "You make me feel mad when....." This will make a person go on the defence. Instead try starting them with "When this happens, this is how I feel....." and have an open calm conversation.

And if you do feel yourself getting mad, walk away for a while, and talk when you've cooled off.

That'll be $50, cash or credit

haha...

And if they say "Fine....Go Ahead!" If you do what they said to go ahead and do, you will be in trouble for at least a week.

*me pokes his head in and runs back out*
not my kind of topic to react on.

yeah i said that...hahaha...

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